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Wednesday, August 25, 2010

MY PERSONALITY

Being a leader since when I was a childhood, being a famous student in our campus and a simple daughter of my parents I just can say that being me and handling my situation of my family is difficult.
As I grow up that all the things I want will give to me because I was the youngest it’s give me the attitude of being a spoiled brat in the family.
My family knows me well of being a responsible student but hard headed daughter. I have a very strong personality of what the people say who I am and especially criticizing my family.

We have all experienced losing in our life. Whether it is a basketball game or a simple bet on boxing match. We got extreme feeling of dejection that it could never have happened but still did. A week has passed when we take the personal traits test. It only means that we are facing more challenges to pass this subject.
As a student that born as one of leaders in the youth I’m always find myself at the receiving end of every decision I make. The outcomes can result to promotions and commendations or relief of and criticism.That is why they couldn’t help but think.” What if it goes bad? What would people say to me? ”Well, we really should be careful of every move that we make especially nowadays when we can’t seem to do anything good. Personal traits I believe is a test that testing how a capability of a person
to make things normal and estimate what ability makes me grow.
I reflect to personality traits that I take up last week that in this kind of life now I must know how to manage my personality and attitude, as living 18 years in this world, as I evaluate myself as a person and entrepreneur, the result is somewhat entrepreneurial, some of my attitude that make of this result are that I am;


 Openhanded person- I think one of the most my assets about my personality is being a kind hearted especially to my friends, I must understand that I have to try to be kind to people and that it will take time. Being a generous is not just something you do for a day and then never again, it is an ongoing journey sometimes you will be to balance the situation, I have a deep patience to all the people I encounter. Hence being a kind person is being to the image of God. The result of your openhanded is happiness IN OTHERS!! Enjoy making OTHERS happy by being generous in all to ALL OTHERS. As a direct and most of the time instant result you will earn a true sincere SMILE from the depth of that soul and heart.

 Dedicated to the one i love/ dedicated to my work or business- in every success there is always a failure that makes a better person “every person must, exercise of his rights and in the performance of his duties, give everyone his due, and observe honesty and good faith. If you love your work or business it will love you too also even the people that surround it!
Being well disciplined individual person embody all the ideals of an admirable character from keeping the whole body fit to maintaining a sober mind. Many among us had grandiose dreams while were young, somehow, along the way succumbed to the faith of failing. Many among us to continue to dream big things but lack the faith and hard work. And many still are contented of just dreaming.



 Faithful- I have always been loyal to everyone that i meet even if their someone I’ve never met before I'm always nice and compassionate around my friends I'm always caring and loving always there for them whenever they need me i would never let them down no matter what but sometimes when people turn on me or tend to dislike me because of one reason or another it tears me apart and i become angry inside and hurt intensely i know what it's like to be hurt and to hurt from those who obviously don't care how another person feels but with me I am and forever will be loyal and caring. Understand what being loyal means. You must be willing to allow your own interests to take second place to be truly loyal to another person or cause. Loyalty is simply the act of putting someone or something else ahead of one's self.
One must that a somewhat entrepreneur like me must be loyal to any business or community that may encounter. surrender is neither self-mortification nor resignation to external events. Surrender infuses you with the power of God and gives you the spiritual energy to find ways out of or through difficult life circumstances. It is inner docility to God's will.

http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Am-Very-Loyal/783435

 Integrity- In every day life we are engaging in different traits that we do not know we are actually doing or practicing it already. Right thing means integrity. We can define the word integrity in many ways but the word simply means being consistent. In what way? Simple, through actions, the methods, the outcomes and so on. What it means to us when we say that we must live with integrity? Easily, to be trustworthy in all of life’s situations. It is also maintaining the kind of character and reputation you have. It is you, you are known for that. Each one of us has different traits. These traits are unique. It is one of the factors that a technopreneur must have. Integrity in ones self is a big challenge for a technopreneurtechnopreneur

 Religious Person-Sometimes I do not to choose to have problems but we cannot avoid to if what gods plan for you, when encounter problems in life, I know that we can always count on GOD, our family and friends to see us through rough road. When times get tough and we need to get through the dilemma or predicament to make decisions, they are always ready to inspire us.
The religious person believes in God; the worshipper loves God. Being religious is being obedient and faithful. Being a worshipper of "the known God" is joyful. God remains unknown to him or her who believes in God but does not love Him. The Bible says, So, love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind, and with all your strength. When you believe in and love God, you offer and surrender yourself to Him to be freed from your personal bondage. But selfless offering and loving surrender aren't forms of giving up your responsibilities. If anything, they expand your commitments.


 Friendly- I have a personality that I can easily trust the person to me. Have you ever tried making pleasant conversation with someone you've run into, and they blew you off by giving one word responses and obviously looking like they don't want to be spoken too? You probably walked away thinking they were pretty unfriendly, even if you intellectually knew they may have had a reason for being brusque. If someone is trying to chat with you, make an effort to give them something back in return. Spend time with people more often. Spend time with them longer. Spend time with more of them. If when you normally see your friends, you leave after a few hours, try spending all day with them. If you only see your friends once or twice a week, try seeing them three times. If you usually keep to yourself at work, and only talk to people on break, try spending time with your coworkers a little more during the workday. If you only see some acquaintances of yours under specific circumstances (e.g., in particular class, at a club), then try to see them outside of that situation. This is all assuming the people you know would be glad to spend more time with you, but if you prefer your own company like I often do, you probably underestimate the amount of time 'regular' people like to spend with each other. It can also be an interesting experience to resist your urge to go home, spend several more hours with people past your usual tolerance, and realize you actually kind of prefer it to being home alone with not enough to do. Overall, having a friendly disposition or attitude is great if you have it, but you can't consistently create one on demand. You can keep certain actions in mind though to still be a more friendly person. Just inviting people out more, remembering to chat to people when you see them around, or joining groups, even if nothing changes about you deep down, are still the behaviors of a sociable person. You'll come across that way more, your social life will probably get a boost, and eventually, through a slightly convoluted process, your mind may come to follow your actions.

Reference: http://www.succeedsocially.com/friendly

From a young age, I have periods where I get "obsessed" with something. I think all of my friends notices that it’s not a simple admiration to someone but a obsession to it. Another factor which contributes is I have a somewhat secretive personality and find it hard to open up to people. I don’t know if its normal to love a person more than yourself, its one of my personal that I cant manage because its all about my feeling to other special to me.
One of the personalities I don’t like is being lazy because since I started High School I noticed that I was always depending to my classmates and friends, and that all being begin that until now I tolerate it.
And that I consider that make hindrance for me that makes me successes is that my personality that easy to jealous to other people.
Jealousy is an form of emotional stress. Jealousy comes form the feeling or insecurity & inadequacy in situations the person regards as curcial to his happiness & welfare. jealousy develops in early adolescent. specifically parents are responsible for it. Parents compare their kids with the other kids or subject or anything who has lesser standards than their child. Or simply say wrong comparison of parents. Or parents compare their kids with the narrow / wrong one. And this stage of mental and physical development child is not able to understand the meaning & values of parent’s intention.

Although we like to think that the people in our lives are well-adjusted, happy, healthy minded individuals, we sometimes realize that it just isn't so. Personally, I've had moments where I'll be skipping through my day, happy as can be, thinking life is grand and BAM, I'll be blindsided by someone who manages to knock the happy wind out of my sails. Sometimes it is easy to write it off and other times, not so much. Maybe you are a positive person, but when you are around a certain individual, you feel negative. Or, maybe you have an idealistic view of the world and when you are with certain people, you are made to feel silly, unrealistic or delusional. Or, maybe you pride yourself in being completely independent and in control of your life, but when you are around a certain family member, you regress into a state of childhood. Some of these situations, and yes, these people, can have a tremendously negative impact on our lives. And, although we are all human and have our 'issues,' some 'issues' are quite frankly, toxic. They are toxic to our happiness. They are toxic to our mental outlook. They are toxic to our self-esteem. And they are toxic to our lives. They can suck the life out of us and even shorten our lifespan.

References: http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/life/8-toxic-personalities-to-avoid-461078/
http://www.healthypages.co.uk/forum/showthread.php?t=47588

"how to be a sucessful technopreneur"??

What are the factors that contributed to the success and failure of Steve Jobs as a technopreneur?
Most Stories about successful people tell about them having a good quality education and possessing the correct attitude. There are also countless individuals I personally met who possess these two valuable tools for success and they holding lofty positions in their work and are happy with their life. Success in life is almost always synonymous with these two attributes. One without the other does not guarantee success, thus the two must complementary.I can say one the very successful person in the world is Mr. Steve Paul Jobs because of his intelligent mind that bring him to the top and being a well-known person in the world. Steve is business magnate and inventor. He is well known for being the co-founder and chief of Apple. Jobs also previously served as chief executive of Pixar Animation Studios and also he became a member of the board of The Walt Disney Company in 2006, following the acquisition of Pixar by Disney.
As I watched the movie of the Pirates of the Silicon Valley, I noticed the some factors that contributed to the Success of Steve Jobs

Creative Thinker
A simple definition is that creative thinker is a person who has the ability to imagine or invent something new. Creativity is not the ability to create out of nothing (only God can do that), but the ability to generate new ideas by combining, changing, or reapplying existing ideas. Some creative ideas are astonishing and brilliant, while others are just simple, good, practical ideas that no one seems to have thought of yet. Creativity is also an attitude: the ability to accept change and newness, a willingness to play with ideas and possibilities, a flexibility of outlook, the habit of enjoying the good, while looking for ways to improve it. Creative people are comfortable with imagination and with thinking so-called weird, wild, or unthinkable thoughts, just for the sake of stimulation. I cant imagine how Steve Jobs have a creative mind creating computer hardware.
http://www.virtualsalt.com/crebook1.htm autohor: Robert Harris

He Don’t be Afraid to Make Mistakes
Some point of our lives we never noticed that we starting making mistakes little by little but because learning from our mistakes makes us strong and courage to do what we want, we pursue of the things that makes us successful even we encounter trials and judging of others. Mistakes is a part of being mature, things that happen to of us. I know sometimes Mr. Steve afraid of making mistakes because a person like him does thing invention perfect. I used to think that as I matured I would make fewer mistakes. I thought, we going to get better at this, because we made a lot of mistakes in the beginning. I believed that there would come a day when I wouldn't make very many mistakes, because I would be better.
What we learned, however, was that as we matured we would continue to make mistakes, but I would learn more quickly from them. Maturity helps us become better leaders because it helps us learn from our mistakes.
As we become more self-confident, we're willing to admit things that we would not admit if we had lower self-image. We become strong enough to admit mistakes -- and learn from them. We become bolder because we know that even if we make a mistake, we are moving ahead.
As we mature we realize that mistakes are not usually fatal. As Henry Ford put it, "Even a mistake may turn out to be the one thing necessary to a worthwhile achievement." Thomas Edison could have said the same thing, with 1,000 "mistakes" before hitting on the discovery he was seeking.
Steve Jobs also learn from his mistakes when I saw the movie the pirates of the Silicon Valley first I noticed that the idea of Steve Jobs will not perfect if he haven’t encountered several mistakes he believed that as long as he did things slowly and carefully, and learned from other people’s blunders. Whenever we did screw up we was often chastised for not being careful enough, for not thinking things through, or for not listening closely enough when we was told about other people’s mistakes. We grew into an anxiety-ridden teenager, afraid of making even the tiniest mistake, and strove for perfection.

Curiosity
Curiosity of Steve Jobs leads to know things all kinds of things just to know them. Knowledge does not require a reason. The question, "Why do you want to know that?" seems strange to the creative person, who is likely to respond, "Because I don't know the answer." Knowledge is enjoyable and often useful in strange and unexpected ways. Next, knowledge, and especially wide ranging knowledge, is necessary for creativity to flourish to its fullest. Much creativity arises from variations of a known or combinations of two knowns. The best ideas flow from a well equipped mind. Nothing can come from nothing.
In addition to knowing, curios people want to know why. What are the reasons behind decisions, problems, solutions, events, facts, and so forth? Why this way and not another? And why not try this or that?
The curious person's questioning attitude toward life is a positive one, not a destructive one reflecting skepticism or negativism. Steve Jobs also is a curios person when he do his invention and idea but because his curiosity he have a wide mind to make more convenience and enhance his invention.
Steve Jobs makes your mind observant of new ideas when he are curious about something, his mind expects and anticipates new ideas related to it. When the ideas come they will soon be recognized. He It opens up new worlds and possibilities by being curious you will be able to see new worlds and possibilities which are normally not visible. They are hidden behind the surface of normal life, and it takes a curious mind to look beneath the surface and discover these new worlds and possibilities. It brings excitement into his life; the life of Steve Jobs is far from boring. It’s neither dull nor routine. He and his company are always new things that attract their attention; there are always new ‘toys’ to play with.

Factors of failure of Steve Jobs are Rejecting of idea and criticism of others
In the movie Steve Jobs is sometimes boastful person he does not how to listen of idea of others. He became self-center he think that all of his idea was a perfect he doesn’t know that sometimes the criticism and knowledge of others make his invention better. These Factors of failure of Steve Jobs make him bad. Criticism is futile because it puts a man on the defensive, and usually makes him strive to justify himself. “Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a man’s precious pride, hurts his sense of importance, he afraid that people criticize him. For me, he was the fear of being criticized, first by his friends, employee and then by people in general. Maybe he does no learn to associate making mistakes with being judged, rejected, and ridiculed, He think that he handle everything.
References: http://drbenkim.com/articles-mistakes.html


How do you see yourself as a technopreneur?
When I read this question how I see my self as a technoprenuer I laughed I think a few minutes started imagine how is my life being with it profession and work. As I grow up I know to myself that I have no capability to this profession. As a student now I haven’t yet idea how difficult is it but when I encountered and met a person who is technopreneur and saw what they do. I think it hard to manage business and trust other people. technopreneur is the key to earn money through technology. Can I really earn from technology? People think nowadays about their future. They think seriously, of course life is not a joke. But sometimes people don't know how to do it. Well in fact the things they need is just around them. The keep on looking for money and they are looking for it badly. Sadly, they don't really know about earning through technology.

Maybe being an technopreneur is a lot more risky than the conventional job routine. There is no regular salary I have to find customers on my own. Marketing your product/service and financing the project are also of concern. I noticed that most technopreneur use a combination of due diligence and gut instincts while evaluating their product/service. They are good at spotting a need in the market and then backing themselves up to believe that their idea can fill that void. If someday I would be a technopreneur I must believe in my idea and not always depending in others, I Never underestimate what I can do and other contributions. Being an technopreneur is a lot more risky than the conventional job routine. There is no regular salary; you have to find customers on your own. Marketing your product/service and financing the project are also of concern. I noticed that most entrepreneurs use a combination of due diligence and gut instincts while evaluating their product/service.
If someday when my path cross being business woman I would rather choose technopreneurship because the evolution of technology is changing every minute or every hour, there are many things and learn to technology. But it hard to me being future business woman because I don’t kwon how to manage money but I know to convincing others but technopreneur is more on knowledge how to new technology in society.
Tales of Successful stories can be traced from the pages of history and even in the pages of the Holy Sciptures. People who reached the zenith of success have distinct characteristics that reflect their totality as a person. How can I reached my goals was never a matter of chance or destiny, but because I possessed strong will of my character and determination.
Success cannot be achieved overnight. It requires a lot of sacrifices that would definitely test how strong and capable you are. There are requirements in order to me to achieve success but not in an easy way. A person needs to have skills. Skills that given by God that every person has. It is only for me to develop these and enhance.
Another requirement would be abilities. Skills when developed and enhanced would soon become a part of me and eventually become my secret weapon towards success. A person equipped with abilities could easily find ways and means overcome difficulties that he might encounter along the way. Abilities are also needed in order to perform my job well. The ability to make decisions and feasible plans would help me a lot in traversing my way towards the long and narrow path of success. My skill and abilities are my greatest investments in order to profit and gain.
My character would be the final determinant whether or not we would be able to reach my destiny. My character counts. Skills and abilities would mean nothing without my character. Success would be within our reach if we possess these three qualities- skill, ability and character. Many people fail to attain their objectives in life because they lack one of these characteristics in the whole package of successful technopreneur.